Do not gamble the future of your children and grand children on "Political Correctness".  How lucky do you feel?    Are you willing to bet your child’s happiness, childhood, safety, security, health and future on politically motivated and extremely limited information you have been exposed to for the last 25 years?      Are you strong enough and bold enough to follow your moral convictions and gut instincts?  You already know some things about homosexuality just don't add up to any level of logic.  You must be willing to do the right thing today by following your instincts and at least learn something about Same Sex Attraction without undue influence from any politically motivated source?

How do you make decisions?   Do you hear a message so many time that you believe it is true (propaganda) or do you investigate things based upon common sense and an inquisitive mind.  What effects will your decisions have on your family?  Spend some time doing your own research.    

When a child "comes out", what to they really know?  They know nothing other than the crap learned from the people who have abused them , teachers supporting a political agenda instead of teaching, MTV,  or from the internet.

You can never know it all.  It is a wise person that does not make long term decisions on short term information.  Never allow the Greg Louganis story to repeat in your community.

I   Fellow parents this is your chance to be bold!  Do your own homework.  Be a responsible parent not an enabler.  It is your job to parent your child, not to be their best friend.  Research the subject with an open mind.  Read everything you can both pro-gay and scientifically based information.  Ask questions from people outside the "gay" community since they are not sure where homosexuality comes from.  Absorb all the information possible from all sources on all sides of this sensitive issue. Get smart.  Get smart today because your precious children are counting on you.  Then tell your friends, clergy, fellow workers, politicians and especially your schools. 

If you are religious, there resources are endless.   If you are not religious, the resources are still endless.  We all must accept part of the responsibility for this situation.  We all must work together to fix it.

    Here is a challenge!  Try to find a pro “gay” affirming source of information encouraging you to view  information on SAME SEX ATTRACTION or how homosexuality originates. 

After completing your own work, you can then make an educated and informed decision about what is right for you and your family.  After your investigation is complete, consider any decision to be an informed decision.   Thought to consider - notice that almost every web page you visit will offer photos of handsome young men.  Youth is a treasure.  It just makes one wonder what happens to the "old guys".

Simply put, homosexuality is a symptom of an unhealed wound or an unmet love need (or both).  That is why you can not "treat" homosexuality.  The great news is with education, proper counseling and guidance, Same Sex Attractions will diminish on their own.  It is not fast, it is not easy, but healing occurs every day enen though the existance of ex-gay people are not recognized by PFLAG and their stories of success and happiness are abundant at PFOX (Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays who are committed to loving their gay children and ex-gay children.

If you are visiting this site due to concern about your child, undoubtedly you have found plenty of information on how to and why you should accept their homosexuality as normal.  Obviously, your questions have not been answered satisfactorily because you continue to search.  This site will provide you with direction and resources that will benefit to you and your family.  Before you buy into your son being “gay” or daughter being lesbian, investigate the facts.  While they will tell you “it is not what I do, it is who I am”, do not believe it.  There are dangers associated with anal sex, health in general, substance abuse and domestic violence associated with the “gay” lifestyle.  A small sample of information is in the following links:
DANGERS OF ANAL SEX   
HEALTH RISKS OF HOMOSEXUALITY
SUBSTANCE ABUSE ASSOCIATED WITH HOMOSEXUALITY
Schollarly Articles associted with substance abuse among homosexuals
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AMONG HOMOSEXUALS         
GOVERNMENTAL ENDORSEMENT OF PRO GAY AGENDA FOR CHILDREN is in the futue unless you get invloved. 

The key to finding general information with scientific basis is to do your own GOOGLE research.  Search the subject title SAME SEX ATTRACTION or UNWANTED SAME SEX ATTRACTION.  This web site is not telling you what to believe in other than believing in yourself, your God and/or any spiritual feelings you posess.  As a courtesy to those happy with their “gay” or lesbian sexual orientation, they need your blessings as well since they are also entitled to respect their opinions and values.  It truly is all about acceptance, diversity, self determination, compassion, and choice. 

WARNING TO ALL:  Note that almost all mental health professionals you will run into have been duped into beleiving homosexuality is a normal variation of life and will often quote the American Psychological Association ruling from 1973.  Note that the APA has made many revisions  recently.  One theory on these changes is to limit their liability regarding future lawsuits that will be filed against schools, cities, counties, states, the federal government and mental health professionals for failure to disclose material facts to those seeking assistance.  It is interesting to note that Dr. Robert Spitzer, who was instrumental in removing homosexuality from the Diagnostic Statistical Manual of the American Psychological Association in 1973 reversed his "immutable" theory 30 years later acknowledging now that "people can change.